{"id":7067,"date":"2018-10-19T08:59:53","date_gmt":"2018-10-19T00:59:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/?p=7067"},"modified":"2021-07-16T10:45:35","modified_gmt":"2021-07-16T02:45:35","slug":"what-to-expect-at-filipino-parties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/2018\/10\/19\/what-to-expect-at-filipino-parties\/","title":{"rendered":"What to Expect at Filipino Parties"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Filipino parties are usually intimate.\u00a0Whether they&#8217;re for birthdays, weddings, fiestas, reunions, or holidays, Filipinos\u00a0hold parties from time to time to celebrate with friends and families.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Respect for the visitors is the number one priority. Filipinos always think about their preferences first, making sure that the food will be enough for the party or the place will have enough space to accommodate everyone. Unless there is a strict reservation, Filipinos don&#8217;t really mind when you invite someone else as long as you inform the host at once. The more, the merrier!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7088\" src=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">But of course, just like other countries and cultures, Filipinos practice common courtesy to avoid being disrespectful, both for the visitors and the host. Check out these tips to guide you at Filipino parties!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\"><b>Filipino time<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">It\u2019s always late o\u2019clock somewhere in the Philippines&#8211;hence hosts usually set the party an hour earlier because they know that the guests will arrive late. For instance, if the party says it will start at 4 p.m., it\u00a0normally starts at 5 p.m., especially if they\u2019re the usual parties like birthdays, reunions, Christmas, and fiesta. In some cases, though, guests should follow a strict schedule especially if the event is held at a private venue rented for only a few hours.<\/p>\n<p><em>Also read:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/2016\/02\/15\/expat-guide-filipino-time\/\">Expats\u2019 Guide: Filipino Time<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">So yes&#8211;don\u2019t be surprised if the guests arrive late. The concept of Filipino time is here to stay, but you can always arrive early to talk and bond with the other early birds or the party hosts themselves before the event starts.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Do: Arrive on time.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t: Disrespect the latecomers.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\"><b>What to wear<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The dress code is generally indicated in the invitation. However, if there\u2019s nothing mentioned, just wear something nice that is appropriate for the party you\u2019re going to attend. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7083\" src=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-1-1024x682.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"801\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-1-1024x682.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-1-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-1-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-1.jpeg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 801px) 100vw, 801px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Also, note that Filipinos are a bit conservative, so don\u2019t wear too revealing clothes especially if Filipino families are going to attend. For example, if you\u2019re going to a formal event or for example, christening, don\u2019t wear tank tops, shorts, and slippers. On the other hand, if you\u2019re partying at a bar, club, or beach, you have the freedom to wear your best outfit.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Do: Dress comfortably for the occasion.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t: Wear inappropriate clothes.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\"><b>Food <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Filipinos serve a lot of food during parties, often with a diverse selection from pasta to rice meals. But you can always expect spaghetti, pancit, lumpiang shanghai, barbecue, or fried chicken served on the table. Expect hotdog sticks with marshmallows for children\u2019s party, too. For desserts, there\u2019s always fruit salad, buko pandan, leche flan, puto, or ube.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Another party-favorite is the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">lechon <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">or roasted pig.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7082 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-Lechon-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-Lechon.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-Lechon-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-Lechon-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Some occasions such as reunions and Christmas parties practice <strong>potluck,<\/strong> where you have to bring food contribution to the party. The food you\u2019re going to bring is usually assigned weeks before the party, and you can bring either homemade or store-bought food that is good for a group of people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">More often than not, Filipinos drink alcohol after eating, especially if there are no kids around. You can always join them to enjoy the taste of local brews.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Do: Enjoy the food served.\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t: Drink alcohol or smoke around kids.\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\"><b>Activities and games<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Filipinos are well-known as music-lovers, so expect singing and dancing in parties. One proof is the videoke&#8211;it\u2019s very popular during parties, especially for birthdays, fiestas, reunions, and Christmas and New Year parties. There are also parades on some fiestas where you can\u00a0watch marching bands.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7089\" src=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-1024x685.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-1024x685.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties-768x514.jpg 768w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Going-to-parties.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">For the games, adults play cards and other Filipino party games such as <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Pinoy Henyo <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">and<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0Stop Dance. For kiddie parties, they play Trip to Jerusalem, Bring Me, and <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Pabitin<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-7095\" src=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Filipino-parties-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Filipino-parties-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Filipino-parties-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Filipino-parties-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Filipino-parties.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Also read:<\/em> <a href=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/2016\/12\/26\/common-filipino-party-games\/\"><em>Common Filipino Party Games<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Do: Try videoke and join Filipino games.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t: Reject the invitation to join the activities as much as possible.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt\"><b>Values <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Since Filipinos value family so much, expect a lot of family members and relatives of the celebrant, particularly for weddings, christening, and birthdays. That said, remember to say goodbye to the celebrant and their parents if you\u2019re already leaving the party. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Moreover, always get food that you know you can finish. Leftovers are a bit impolite for Filipino families. If they pack you food for the road, don\u2019t hesitate to accept it as a common courtesy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Also, bring gift for the celebrant\/s, even if it\u2019s just a simple one. If it&#8217;s a wedding gift, you can get the newly-weds small appliances like toaster, microwave, rice cooker, and other kitchenware or tableware. For birthdays and Christmases, you can buy something simple such as shirts, accessories, among other personal gifts you can think of. Moreover, for kids, you can buy them toys, clothes, or\u00a0<\/span>chocolates.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7100\" src=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Filipino-party-gifts.jpeg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Filipino-party-gifts.jpeg 800w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Filipino-party-gifts-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2018\/10\/Filipino-party-gifts-768x513.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Also read:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/2015\/09\/19\/filipino-birthday-parties-the-fun-the-fare-the-non-stop-singing\/\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">Filipino Birthday Parties: The fun, the fare, the non-stop singing<\/span><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Do: Respect the celebrant and their family members. Bring gifts or token.\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t: Leave your food untouched or unfinished.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>What other traditions and values do you know when going to Filipino parties? We&#8217;d love to hear in the comments!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt\"><em>Written by Yana Bautista<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Filipino parties are usually intimate. 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