{"id":2848,"date":"2016-07-04T16:46:43","date_gmt":"2016-07-04T08:46:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/?p=2848"},"modified":"2021-07-05T17:05:38","modified_gmt":"2021-07-05T09:05:38","slug":"what-to-expect-when-dining-at-a-filipino-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/2016\/07\/04\/what-to-expect-when-dining-at-a-filipino-home\/","title":{"rendered":"What to Expect When Dining in at a Filipino Home"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">So you\u2019re new to the country and lots of questions are probably buzzing in your head right now. You\u2019re a little clueless about everything, from the Filipino culture and traditions to their way of thinking and living. But of course, eventually you\u2019ll meet some Filipino friends. The next thing you\u2019ll know is these new found Filipino friends, being the most hospitable folks that they are, will be inviting you to come over and have dinner with them in their house. When this happens, this article might come handy for you. Here\u2019s some things you should know when dining with Filipinos: <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\"><strong>1. Spoon and fork are the usual eating utensils<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2852\" src=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/07\/Rice.jpg\" alt=\"Rice\" width=\"500\" height=\"199\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">SPOON FOR RICE. Use the spoon to easily scoop up the rice.\u00a0 (Photo credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pepper.ph\/wpcontent\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Rice.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">pepper.ph<\/a>)<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">If there\u2019s one thing you will never miss out on a Filipino meal, it\u2019s rice. There are a lot of rice farm in the Philippines, so every meal here is usually complemented with boiled rice and that\u2019s why spoon and fork are essential. You\u2019ll rarely see knife alongside your plate in a casual dinner with them, which is probably a very weird thing for western culture, but don\u2019t be shy if you need it or something, Filipinos will not hesitate to provide you everything you need if they have it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\"><strong>2. Chatting while eating is normal<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2849\" src=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/07\/ceating-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"ceating\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" srcset=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/07\/ceating-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/07\/ceating-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/07\/ceating-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/07\/ceating.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em>CONVERSATIONS. For Filipinos, when they chat, they bond! (Photo credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.clipartkid.com\/images\/148\/showing-gallery-for-family-eating-together-animated-r3WdLF-clipart.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">clipartkid.com<\/a>)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">Filipinos are very usual of this habit called c<em>hikahan <\/em>or having conversations. They love to talk and laugh at random things, from your personal life to the current events. While for other culture, it is considered disrespectful to talk while eating; it\u2019s actually fun chatting over hot and delicious meal with good companionship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\"><strong>3. Don\u2019t leave the table until everyone else is finish with their food<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2850\" src=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/07\/DINING-1024x618.jpg\" alt=\"DINING\" width=\"500\" height=\"302\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">WAIT FOR A MINUTE. It is also not advisable to get active moving again after eating.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">In the Philippines, leaving the table when someone\u2019s still eating might be considered impolite. So when you finished your meal, you can just stay and rest on your seat for a while and join their conversation, as they will surely entertain you after you fill your tummy. And here\u2019s some fun trivia: there\u2019s an old saying in the Philippines that if you start packing up and cleaning your space while someone\u2019s still eating, that someone will be doomed to be deprived of marriage rights for his\/her life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\"><strong>4. Here\u2019s a fun thing after eating: you would want to get used to burping!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2853\" src=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/07\/burp.gif\" alt=\"burp\" width=\"500\" height=\"315\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">BURP! You\u2019ll get used to it. (Photo credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/edit.burrp.com\/wpcontent\/uploads\/2011\/09\/Photobucket1.gif)\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">edit.burrp.com<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">Maybe burping in front of the dining table is rude when it comes to other country\u2019s belief and culture, but here in the Philippines, burping is somehow considered as a sign of a happy tummy. If you burp, it actually means you\u2019re full and you enjoy the meal. Just don\u2019t forget to mumble &#8220;sorry&#8221; or &#8220;excuse me&#8221; after letting out the awkwardly funny sound!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\"><strong>5. Don\u2019t refuse a packed meal<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2851\" src=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/07\/paperbags.jpg\" alt=\"paperbags\" width=\"500\" height=\"250\" srcset=\"https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/07\/paperbags.jpg 740w, https:\/\/primer.com.ph\/tips-guides\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/07\/paperbags-300x150.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em>PACKED MEALS. Always be courteous and accept packed leftovers when they offer you. You can just give it away to the homeless if you really don\u2019t want it. (Photo credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ironman.com\/~\/media\/fa392855f3ee49fc9fa6b558341e3e35\/1408proteinsnacks%20740.jpg?w=740&amp;h=370&amp;c=1)\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ironman.com<\/a>)<\/em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt\">It is common in the Philippines, particularly in restaurants, the packing of leftover foods to take home. So if the host offers you a bag full of foods, don\u2019t hesitate to take it. It usually comes in Styrofoam or plastic containers placed inside a paper bag. You can just reheat it for an instant meal when you get home.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.gourmetsociety.ph\/filipino-dining-etiquette-primer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Gourmet Society Philippines<\/a>; <a href=\"thephilippinesexpat.com\/2015\/09\/18\/a-guide-to-filipino-dining-etiquette-infographic\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Philippines Expat<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So you\u2019re new to the country and lots of questions are probably buzzing in your head right now. You\u2019re a little clueless about everything, from the Filipino culture and traditions to their way of thinking and living. But of course, eventually you\u2019ll meet some Filipino friends. The next thing you\u2019ll know is these new found Filipino friends, being the most hospitable folks that they are, will be inviting you to come over and have dinner with them in their house. When this happens, this article might come handy for you. Here\u2019s some things you should know when dining with Filipinos: 1. 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